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Beauty Standard Question: Most Men on Yahoo Say One Thing, But Most Other Men Say Differently?
This is mostly for guys, but ladies....yeah, you should answer this, too. Some of you would have anyway, but I want you to. Anyway, here goes.
I've noticed on several online questions men say they prefer real breasts over fake ones- unless they sag, and then most men say they prefer fake. To me that's ALMOST the equivalent of saying I like small breasts to be left alone....and if they're big, I hope they're implants. Afterall, most larger breasts naturally sag more and sooner. And smaller breasts usually stay perkier for longer, BUT I know this is not always the case. Some people with larger breasts do have rather perky ones, and some smaller breasted young people have saggy breasts. I know it depends, but point being, most larger breasted women sag. So, are these men really saying, "We don't like large breasts that are real?"
With that question asked, I have another related one. While men on here say this all the time- fake suck, but saggy is worse- men in my real life, do not appear to have this same mentality. I know some of you will say they're BS'ers, but hear me out. I dated a guy a few years ago, who hated the way fake breasts look. I don't think he was faking that, either. And he didn't want me to get plastic surgery. Anyway, given, his tastes in beauty weren't the usual tastes in beauty. I'll admit that. However, every guy I've been with, as well as all my male friends who are just friends, have told me they dislike fake breasts- with one exception and I don't know about him, but I don't think he cares much one way or the other. Yet, the rest said they preferred real breasts. All the guys I've been with also said they really didn't want me to have surgery on my breasts because they found it unattractive. My friend wants surgery on hers and her bf is really revved up about talking her out of it. He says he doesn't like the fakes. Also, the guys who have seen me naked never complained about my breasts, but I realize they might not have wanted to be rude. Yet, they seemed to actually like them and they all discouraged me from getting surgery. In fact, men seem to like to watch women's breasts bounce, even if they're saggy....at least the men I've known. Not only have the guys I've been with liked this, but I've known other ladies who complain about sag who have men that like their breasts to bounce. If you ask me, my breasts are definitely saggy. Yet, guys don't seem to mind. In fact, they tell me to leave them be- no surgery please!
Well, then I was online on youtube and watching a rap video and noticed this one girl DEFINITELY had real breasts. They had quite a bit of sag, yet she was portrayed as being a desirable woman in the video (and NO she was not the performer and NO it was NOT a really old video) and a few of the comments which were new were talking about what great breasts she had. I saw several positive ones and only one negative comment, calling them cow udders or something similar, but the positive ones blew the negative ones out of the water in number. And obviously these men weren't saying it to spare my feelings.
So, is this some sort of cultural difference or what's going on? I realize of course men have different opinions and are individuals, but the majority on here say fake is better than saggy and I've noticed this on some message boards, too, but the majority of guys watching the rap videos seem to like them saggy just fine, and the majority of guys in my real world would rather have sag than fake, too. There is such a huge diff. in the number of men on here and some message boards that prefer fakes, compared to the ones in my real world (for example) that don't, that there must be some reason for it. Is it cultural? Is someone BS'ing someone? Do the men here not represent most men or do the men in my world not represent most men? As I said, I know just like women, men are individuals and I have seen men on here say they do prefer saggy and a few even said they not only prefer sag to fake, but they like saggy breasts to begin with. Yet, there's just a huge difference in percentages when it comes to these answers, depending on where the question is asked. What do you all think?
Just wanted to say this to the lady who said it was moronic to care about breast size, given basically that the world is a hell hole & has much larger problems. Amen, to what you said about there being much bigger probs. I do not dispute this. I care about other things & realize this is not the biggest deal in the world. In fact, I'm not that important in the scheme of things when it gets right down to it, either, but that doesn't mean it's moronic to give a crap about myself. I know I should do more to help the world & I plan to try. It's one of my top priorities to try to make a positive diff.- in the world not my chest. Point being, I know I have room for improvement, but I do try to make a diff. in the world, & don't stand frowning at my chest all day. Still, it is nature- instinct- to want to be sexually desirable. And I wasn't referring to breast size, but the fact that mine sag. Also, admit it- we're both wasting precious time on yahoo answers anyway, so I might as well as ask.
With that said, to the same woman- I hate most everything, also. And I can appreciate your justified rage. But caring about something doesn't mean it's your #1 priority or even close.
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